My slave is a reflection of me. If she is rude to either master or slave, it is my problem. It is as if I was rude, and I must take action to correct that (personally accept the responsibility).

If I speak to another slave in any fashion, it should only be after I have either gained permission to do so from that slaves master, or if we have a pre-existing relationship. If I speak rudely or ingraciously to a slave, I should offer an explanation to his/her master.

If I feel someone has been rude to my slave (either slave or master), I take it up with the master.

None of these are the Real Way or The One True Path Of Ds – they are only the way we do things in our House.

One thing important in House Metta is language. Using the correct term for the correct term. Such as understanding that someone who wields a flogger is a top, not a dominant, Dom, or Master. A master can wield a flogger, but it does not make him a Dominant. Ds and Ms are term related to a lifestyle, not a play style.

Heard an odd comment the other night – someone mentioned “House Metta” and someone else said “Is that still around?”

I guess I need to start putting some energy there

“Being Sir’s submissive makes me feel very proud and it’s truly an honor. With being His submissive come with it many things. Being His submissive and apart of His House has a responsibility to it. One that I am honored to carry out.

As Sir’s submissive a way for me to service Him while He isn’t around is to represent His House and Him in all that i do. Being His i, i am a reflection of that, therefore, how i carry myself, what i do, say, represents that. i must act with honor, integrity, respect and carry a pride for myself, Him and His house.

One of the biggest services i could do for Him when W/we are not together is to act and behave as i would expect He would want me to, with love, compassion and integrity, with holding my head high and with confidence.

Being His, i love it! i love servicing Him in any way that He sees fit. i trust Him 100%, i would obey any order/command given and not think twice about it.

Being His submissive i have noticed that i am very much more aware of my actions, in His presence and not. i am living by my own spiritual principles more, being more aware how I am treating others. Making sure I treat other Doms with the same respect that I treat Him with; taking more notice of Ones He knows.

It’s an honor Sir, being Your’s”

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“I have been in a Ds/Ms relationship with my Master, Dan, for more than 8 years now.

I value this style of relationship with my husband, as it stretches the boundaries of our growth. I am able to concentrate on serving Him and taking care of Him/Us, with total faith that He is taking care of me/Us, as well.

This relationship is an amazing example of power exchange. Each of us brings our talents to the relationship, making it a balanced whole. Dan has taught me that there are people out there that have integrity, honesty, compassion, and are able to trust and follow their intuition. He has taught me to listen to that little voice inside of me that tells me what I need from a relationship. He has provided a safe place for me to learn about and embrace my sensual nature. He has helped me embrace my strengths. He has helped me recognize the good in people. He has always lifted me up as a submissive.

Dan has earned the title of Master. I trust him 100% because he has proven to me over and over again, that he deserves that trust. I am grateful to be able to kneel by His side. This is where I belong”