What to do?
Someone asked on a local message board (regarding a Ds or Ms environment)
“What would you do if some Dom came over and spanked your butt in passing without even a ‘howdy do’ first?”
This answer, from chantryss, was so perfect I asked her if I could repost it here.
“IIn such a situation, I would immediately actually ask the Dom if he had my (Masters) permission , listen to his response, then excuse myself and go straight to talk to (Master) about it. Trust but verify maybe the right term for that.
I am thinking, that by doing the above, I am:
1) remaining respectful and the presenting the kind of *face* (Master) could be proud of me for, since I agree that I am an extension of his image.
2) By asking, I am expressing my need to be sure I am obeying (Master). Also, should the spanking Dom NOT have (Master’s) permission, well, I am alerting him/her to the fact that rules do exist for me, I am smart enough to know this, and perhaps they had better high tail it for the hills cause my (Master) will cometh. *smile*
3) I can take satisfaction in knowing I can do all this without raising my voice, smacking anyone, causing a scene and maintaining my (reputation)
4) Plus, I know that *I* will not be in trouble with (Master) for my behavior. Which is the biggest concern of all, to me.
Now, with all that said…I should probably note, that this kind of thing has happened to me before. I should also note that at least one time,after talking to (Master) about it, HE decided the Fellow should spank me a few more times. *pout* I dunno WHAT was up with that! A girl just never can be sure how one’s (Master) is going to respond!
